A (Kinda) Happy Ending, I Think

Well...this chapter doesn't have anything to do with good-byes.  That's a relief.  I began writing it when I was dealing with January and all of its grief.  We had Zuza's surgery date, January 23, come upon us, and really, I was pretty nervous. There are good reasons for doing the surgery beyond my discomfort of seeing that blind eye everyday and being reminded of her mortality.  Untreated, there is a possibility that the "hypermature" cataract could begin to break down, causing inflammation and pain.  She could develop glaucoma, which translates into a lot of pain and the possible removal of her eye.  I realize that it could fit the pirate motif quite well, but she'd have a few things to say about wearing a patch.  And a parrot.  We had been waiting since October for this opening, (which we only got because somebody loves Carolyn up there at the Cornell Vet School), and now we were taking her there at 9:00am for her surgery. 

The first thing that we were told was that, oh no, the actual surgery wouldn't be that day, they would test her and keep her there for three or four days, (!) do the surgery, keep her another day or two, (!) and then we would bring her home.  This was all blithely spoken by the student, who then did some of the tests that I am familiar with.  She had some trouble with them and then admitted that this was her first day on this rotation and she was nervous.  She was actually very sweet, and was relieved that Carolyn was not only a retired vet, but was encouraging and kind to her, and after that didn't try explaining things that Carolyn certainly knew.  When she left, I turned to Carolyn and said that there was no way in hell I was leaving her for the week!! I mean, c'mon, we have a retired vet and a very observant dog mom in the house and...and...and!  Carolyn reassured me that we wouldn't let that happen. Then the resident came in and did everything over again--like they do--and then the grown-up doctor came in and examined Zuza and spoke with us (mostly Carolyn, because she's the real thing), and back came the student to make all the final arrangements.  

Mostly I was worried about the rehab time.  She was going to have to wear a cone of shame for a month, and you know that was going to be ugly. She was going to have a number of eye drops every day, forever--okay, that's doable--and on February 2, she would be 11 years old, going under anesthesia for the umteenth time.  And Luke would be a freaking basket case the whole time she was gone.  But other than that, it was fine.

It was decided that we would leave her there for testing that included ocular ultrasounds and electroretinagrams, and wait for a call around 4:30pm to pick her up, or to drop off her (prescription) food.  Oy.  We went to do errands.  

On a side note--it never occurred to me that one could ultrasound an eyeball, especially a teeny one.  It makes sense, I suppose, but how little is the wand?  Second, I had not heard of an electroretinagram (ERG) before, and it intrigues me that anyone can look through a thick cataract to see what's going on in there.

So, the call came at 2:30.  Hmmmm, early.

We could come pick her up, and they were sorry that she wasn't a candidate for surgery. What?!!  We zoomed back and met "our" student--I was actually getting really fond of her--and got the whole story.  Boiled down to the basics, they wouldn't do the surgery because it wouldn't help her see.  They might have done it if her good eye was perfect, but the retinas in both of her eyes had only minimal function. In fact, they couldn't say how much she was seeing now.  So, the good news is that she didn't have to stay in this very scary place or deal with all of the aftermath of rehab, and we didn't have to plunk down $3000.  The bad news is that my baby girl is going to be blind.  The student said, "You carry her most of the time, right? It won't be that different. She doesn't really need to see."  In some ways she's right. Zuza's nose works great; her ears work, and we have no idea how well she has been seeing, anyway.  She runs joyfully out into the backyard when there is no snow, jumps heroically from her little stairs to Carolyn's chair in the living room, knows the locations of every little bed and waterbowl in my office and at home, panhandles ruthlessly from my clients and the tellers at her favorite bank, and is more than content to experience outside life from inside my jacket.  So it's good, right?

We still have to worry about all of the reasons we based our decision upon in the first place, but in my non-logical heart, I'm not so worried about those things.  I can't even tell you why.  Maybe it's denial, or maybe it's living in the moment, but if I have learned anything from these pirates I love, it's to take one step at a time. Losing them is unspeakably awful, but having them in my life is such pure soul touchingly rich.  So, here I am, training to become her guiding eyes human, while she continues to be my medical alert dog.  Seems fair to me.